Monday, October 5, 2009

Things to ponder about

  1. Why is that some people just skip over unpleasant things and pretend that it never happened? It seems as if they don't give a damn what the other person thinks anyway. Occupies a place in my list of "things I hate".
  2. Is it really true that if you are around happier and confident people that you feel better too? Or is it one of those weird pschyological things?
  3. Which is better- to be the last priority to people you love and care about a lot or to have no one to either care for or care about you at all?
  4. Why is that that people who understand your silence and denials that your "nothing is wrong" indeed means "something is wrong" so few and so hard to come by?
  5. It is scary to tell what we feel in the deepest corners of our heart. Is it wrong to expect those closest to us to take initiative atleast until we are sure enough?
  6. Why is that something nags you inside, as if something is missing, someone could have said more, done more even when part of you knows it is stupid to expect everyone to be an literal antenna picking up whatever you feel?
  7. Last but not the least, why does it hurt so much when reminded of a friendship you had lost but thought you had gotten over with.. even when you know it was the best thing to have done what you did at that time?
Until next time,
Bella

4 Comments:

  1. SiMbA tAgO said...
    i have got answers to all these .. might be surprising ... but nice ones ...

    1. "things i hate" .. correct one... bang on ... u cant some people .. its usually with all of us .. cuz this situation arrives .. when people are fed of friends .. or may be fresh thro a betrayall.. many things happen to us ..

    2.i think its jus a psychological .. cuz happiness doesnt come from grouping ... but from heart .. and a lone person is enuf to keep us happy ...

    3. anyday its better to have no one to either care for us at all ... better die in solitude than rot in hell...

    4. cuz realations are made by heart and heart at times has varied emotions ... so cant judge it either ... and if v 've too many of such then its a trouble too ... better to be loved by one than by many .. m serious .. i'm like this .. n love being this ...

    5. its not at all wrong ... but we know that its hard to get it that way ... its not always easy to have someone who can read us thro the eyes and the lines .... it is wrong to expect , but it is wrong to expect that always ...

    6. cuz happiness comes without a condition ... happiness knows only one thing .. to keep the heart happy ...and smiling ... adn it needs everything to keep the soul happy ... as i said ... love happens without a notch .. without a condition .. and then only its a true love...

    7. cuz ... i dunno but one thing i always feel is that and accept that "when you argue, fight and hurt someone badly, just think once, what is important to u?? the situation or the person ??? " ... i think this answers the last one ... cuz we know that its not easy to forge the best and the darkest moments of the life.. they coexist ... and will always exist together ... memories at times may be hurting ... but then memory is a memory .. it cant be reverted...

    cheers .. i hope i was good enuf for answering ...

    cheers .. harini

    take care ... loved the post cuz it was straight from the heart ..keep more...
    VIJITHA said...
    Great retrospection...
    you've phrased the 3rd pt so well :)
    Harini said...
    Thanks Vijitha :)
    Harini said...
    @Simba

    Yours answers are even more intriguing than my questions.. But I really enjoyed reading ur replies.. U answered quite a few of my questions :)

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